Thursday, January 15, 2009
Happy 9th Bday!!!
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Thursday, December 18, 2008
So what did Mary & Joseph do while waiting for baby Jesus??
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Thursday, October 30, 2008
Fun Day!
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Labels: Mike
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
F. D. O. S. -- Tears of Sorrow or Jumping for Joy??
What about you??? What does the first day of school mean....
Tears of sorrow or..... Jumping for joy?????
Sorry, I took down the pics of my kids with the signs...because they had their real names on them....brain cramp!! So, if you're just now reading this...imagine them all holding cute little signs with their names and grade!!! ~Kath
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Monday, July 21, 2008
Trifecta!
It has happened, the sun, the moon, and the stars must have all aligned themselves.....my 3 kids are away until tomorrow! That's right, you read correctly.....all 3 kids....left Sat with GMa & GPa and won't get home until Tuesday afternoon!
We've hit the trifecta. Believe it or not, this rarely happens. Both sets of grandparents watch our kids once a year while we have a work trip to attend, but other than that the trifecta rarely happens.
I can literally count on one hand the number of times that all 3 kids were gone....even for a few hours at someone else's house....and we were at home.
Staying at home with my kids is a decision I've never regretted. However, 13 years without a break is a long time. Even though they are now all 3 in school, it seems as if the moments alone still are not enough. Does that make any sense? I don't know if it's our busyness, or if it will just take awhile for me to get there.
Lately, I have to confess, I've been feeling run down, worn out....kind of 'over it'...if you know what I mean. Summertime will do that. This break has been such a blessing. Thank you, thank you, thank you...M & D.
This morning I came across a blog that a friend of a friend started. (I told you I do that sometimes....it can be dangerous!) Anyway, this couple just lost their baby boy a month ago. He was born healthy, went to the hospital for dehydration and things spiraled from there. He ended up seeming to have one problem after another and eventually died. He was just 6 months old. I had been following their story the whole time Baby J was in Hopkins through their hospital website. Today was the first time I'd read her blog.
Understandably, she speaks of unimaginable sorrow, and how she's just trying to survive each day. She and her husband have 3 other kids. Here is something she wrote:
"I pray for the millions of parents out there. I pray that they know the true gift and miracle of being a parent and that they use that gift wisely. May they see the magic in their child's eyes and NEVER take a single moment for granted."
Whew! I think that one was for me. I am hoping and praying that by the time my kiddos return tomorrow, I am rejuvinated, ready to engage, and ready to be a better mom. I have much to be thankful for. It is sometimes so easy to take it all for granted.
If you want to check out my friend's, friend's blog, her name is Amy and here is the link:
www.findingsunshineagain.blogspot.com
I wanted to leave you with a short funny story. This was what I was originally going to post about today, it's funny how sometimes you sit down to write and something entirely different comes out.
At the beginning of the summer, some neighbors of ours were getting ready to have some work done on their home. A small sign was placed in their front yard listing the company's name and # and a port-a-potty was delivered and placed on the side of the house. We happened to be driving out of the neighborhood while the port-a-potty was being taken off the truck.
Mike TV was with me and he says to me:
Mike: Cool, it looks like the Joneses (not their real names) are putting in a port-a-potty. Awesome!
Me: I think they are getting their basement finished. The port-a-potty is for the workers to use.
Mike: Oh, so you mean when their basement is finished, they will take away the port-a-potty?
Me: Yep.
Mike: That is too bad.
Is that the way an 8 year old boy thinks, or what??? :)
Have a good day. I'm out of here.
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Monday, July 14, 2008
Tiger & Twirling
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Thursday, June 26, 2008
The Love of a Parent
This past week my family has been under seige........
by this......
......................................................a bird!!!
Sure she looks innocent, but looks can be deceiving. In her mind, we are the enemy.
It started about a week ago. We noticed her hanging around a bush on the corner of our house. The following day, she'd make all kinds of noises if you walked in her direction. I told the kids that she must be the Mommie bird and that she's probably protecting her nest of eggs.
They were all fascinated and thrilled at the prospect of possibly seeing the nest, eggs......and one day soon, the baby birds. I told them, they'd have to wait until the eggs hatched, because we didn't want to disturb the nest.
Shortly thereafter, the full on assaults began.
If one of us would enter our front yard at all, the bird would go nuts. Making all kinds of noises and flapping her wings.
That evening Charlie was messing with the bird and trying to get it riled up, by walking in our front yard....that's it, really, just walking into the yard....and she flew at him about 90 miles per hour and nipped him in the butt!
We noticed that the next day another bird joined her....the father, I presume.
Sometimes our dog likes to go out front and lay in the yard. That day, I noticed that when Dakota went out the birds were in a fit, making all kinds of noise and doing lots of fly bys. Apparently, Dakota is Enemy #1, as far as the birds are concerned. I decided to try not to let her out front anymore just to give the birds some peace.
The following morning when I was outside taking pictures with my new camera, I let Dakota out in the backyard to go potty. The birds took about 3.5 seconds to figure out that Dakota was in the backyard and this time there was lots of noise, and fly bys, and then it happened, she was attacked....3 TIMES! Poor doggy! The birds just nipped her from behind, but she was so startled. She had a look on her face as if to say,
What in the heck?? I'm just trying to pee here.
The rest of the day, the birds would be up in arms, mounting tons of fly bys if any of us entered the front OR back yard!
Now it has reached a new level. Veruka and Mike were sitting INSIDE of our house, in the Study. (That's right, I said inside!) Veruka was on my laptop sitting on the floor, by the window, when the birds started up again. They were fired up that she was invading their territory!!!
Thankfully, the eggs have hatched. We can hear the baby birds, but have yet to even see the nest. Veruka was the brave one who took the bird picture....thank goodness for my new zoom lens! (Just a little aside, when she took the pix and zoomed in she noticed the bird had a spider in it's mouth. She was disgusted and said, "Who in the world would want to eat a spider?" I answered....."Uh....a baby bird." :)
The kids said the birds are crazy, but I told them that they are just parents who would do anything to protect their "children." I can totally relate. I can take all kinds of injustices against myself. People can hurt my feelings or wrong me, and I'll just turn the other cheek. However, when it comes to my children, it's a different story. I will defend them to the end. 'Don't mess with my child, if you don't want to mess with me.' Do you know what I mean?
I guess that is love.
That is what these kids do to us. They make us want to fight any battle for them. They make us want to protect them. They make us want to provide for them. They make us want to make it a better, safer world for them.
That is the love that a parent has for their child. Wholehearted, unconditional, complete love.
I remember when each of my kids were born, I was just amazed at the depths of my love for these brand new little babies. In fact, I was smitten before they were even born. Just like the Mommie & Daddy bird....protecting their babies before they'd even hatched out of their eggs.
I remember one night as I sat rocking Veruka, thinking that I couldn't imagine my own parents having that same depth of love for me. But guess what? They did and they still do. It is mind boggling.
As I lay in bed last night, I was thinking about all of this, something occurred to me.
This same kind of parent-child love is the love that God has for EACH of us. Not just for a few special people. Not just for those who go to church. Not just for those who walk a certain path, but for EVERYONE. We are all His children. He loves all of us wholeheartedly, unconditionally, and completely. How is that for mind boggling??
I miss being able to enter our front & back yard without fear of attack. Hopefully, by the time we get back from vacation, the whole family will have moved on, and we can have a cool nest to remember them by.
PS. Yes, I know that you don't spell Mommy with an 'ie'....I just like it that way. :)
Posted by Kathi Roach at 7:49 PM 7 comments
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Little Buddy's weekend as an ONLY CHILD
Last weekend, both of the Big Kids were away on a church youth group retreat. This meant our Little Buddy got to be an ONLY CHILD for an entire weekend! We had a lot of fun hanging out with him.

Friday night, the three of us went to Movie Night at his Elementary School. The school has this event almost every month, but it is always on a Friday night which is when we usually meet with our church community group. This was only our second time going this year, so he was thrilled. We saw "Meet the Robinsons." I have learned that apparently I am able to sleep through a movie, in public, at the school I teach at, in the midst of a crowded cafeteria! The beginning and the end of the movie were great.....I couldn't tell you a thing about the middle! :)
Afterwords, we brought one of his good friends home with us to have a sleepover. The boys were up bright and early Saturday morning, so after breakfast, Brian returned the friend to his home and he and Little Buddy went fishing together.
Next on the agenda was his baseball game. Bri coaches the team and the kids have a blast. (What a treat for us to only have ONE game to attend the entire weekend!)
Here are some pics:
Warming up with Dad, before the game.
Is that a smile like his Dad's or what?
Our team of fine young men and coaches!
Catching, just like his Daddy used to.
Pitching
and hitting!
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Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Pressing On
So now reluctantly, we move forward.
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Labels: Charlie, Kevin Lawyer, Mike
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Cute Prayer
Monday night I was at a meeting and B put the kids to bed. Our Little Buddy was saying his prayers and he asked God to let him have a good Primary Election Day.
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Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Real things my kids have said to me.
Monday, February 4, 2008
My Baby is 8!!!!
I cannot believe it, but my baby is 8!!!! It is just amazing how quickly these past 5 years have flown by since we moved back to Maryland. It seems as if someone has hit the fast forward button on my life, and as hard as I may try, I can't stop it. Does anyone else feel this way?
Why is it that when your kids are babies and toddlers, the time seems to move EXCRUCIATINGLY slow, but just when they get a little older and things finally seem to get a little easier, the time flies by at the speed of light??
Here are some pictures. The first one is from his real Bday. His gift from us was a BMX bike. Now he's just like his Big Bro!
Check out the pix of B's Kick-off by finger. Funny!
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Wednesday, December 12, 2007
New Names for All!
Hey Everyone!
I just wanted to let you know that from this entry forward, my kids will be listed by their nicknames in my blog. Since this blog is just hanging out there on the great big WWW... I figured it's better to be safe than sorry.
"So, what are their nicknames?" you ask
Veruka
Charlie
& Mike TV
"Hey, those names sound familiar," you may be thinking.....that's right, you know where they're from.
Yes, we really do call our kids these names.
Veruka got her nickname first when she was in second grade. She was CONSTANTLY saying, "Daddy, I want....." or "Daddy, I need...." or "Daddy, I should be first because....."
The boys nicknames naturally followed.
Charlie, because he is so much like Charlie in the movie.....good kid, follows the rules, succeeds in life. Also, his Dad's nickname was Charlie when he was growing up and he is a lot like his Dad.
Mike got his nickname because if the TV is on....he must watch it. He goes into a deep, meditative, trance like state, regardless of what is on.....seriously, it can even be a commercial. This is a kid that CANNOT multitask...so he will sometimes zone out in mid sentence, if he notices that the TV is on. We joke that his brain must be saying, "TV is on.....must watch TV....must watch TV." (He reminds me a lot of my future son-in-law :) ... R.H.)
Also, if you know Mike...we swear he is the next Jim Carrey. He LOVES to be the center of attention and can do dead on impersonations of Owen Wilson, Ben Stiller & many others....
So, I've gone back and changed their names in all of my past posts and from this point forward they will go by their nicknames.
Hope it brings a smile to your face.
Enjoy!
PS. M & J....check out your little girl's nickname under the Thanksgiving entry.
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Sunday, December 9, 2007
Mike and his Crutches
Okay, I am slowly catching up.
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What do you want to be when you grow up????
So, Brian is driving in the car with Charlie and Mike and asks them,
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
They think for a moment...and.....
Charlie answers, "I want to be an NFL football player."
Brian asks, "Why?"
Charlie replies, "Because it'd be awesome!"
Then Mike answers, "I also want to be an NFL football player." (Little brother is alot like Big brother!)
Brian asks Mike, "Why do you want to be an NFL football player?"
Mike replies without missing a beat,
"Three reasons, Dad.
The fans
the fame,
and the chicks!"
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Friday, November 16, 2007
Family Pictures.....A great way to torture your kids and yourself!
Well, we had our family picture taken last week. We were due, since our last family picture was 5 years ago. In the last family picture, Mike was 2 (awwww!) , Veruka was sitting on my lap and still didn't have her front teeth, and Charlie had a buzz cut! Yep, I'd say they've changed!
Getting a family picture taken isn't as easy as it sounds.
First, I had to break the "good" news to the kids. Nobody was too thrilled about it.
Then, there was the chore of deciding what to wear. This time nobody wanted to dress up, so we went with jeans. However, there still was the matter of coordinating everyone's shirts.
Then, I had to find a time where all 5 of us were available. (That alone was next to impossible!) We came up with one time that worked.....it was an early dismissal day for the kids.
(You can imagine how thrilled they were!)
The day of the picture came and I have to say, that the kids looked so nice. Well, I should clarify that...Veruka always looks nice...the boys were the ones who looked better than usual. When they were all dressed I told the kids, that "before I had kids" this is how I thought my kids would look all the time. I mean, they looked like a catalog ad! (I had no idea that in real life boys would want to wear shorts 95% of the year, with jerseys and sweatshirts. Who knew?)
So, we got the pictures taken, which was honestly much better than when they were younger. (They have learned that if they smile nicely, the torture will end sooner.)
The great thing was that we got to select and take home our pictures that same day. Great in that we got it all over with at once. Not so great, in that I had to figure out exactly which pictures we wanted while Brian and the kids stood around bored to death. We ended up not really liking any of the pictures of the 5 of us, so they even reshot them. (Yea, the kids were soooo happy about getting to do it again!) Thankfully, those came out much better. Brian took the kids to the pet store to hold some puppies while I made the selections. After about an hour with my list and calculator, we were done.
We got to leave the Mall, mentally exhausted, pictures in hand, with 3 kids whining, "Can we please, please, please get another dog???"
I am not posting the picture, because it is going to be our Christmas Card this year. (I should have had them print a caption on it that says, "This is how my kids never look.")
So when you get it, you can think of all of our hard work that went into it. :)
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Update....July 2008....I've added the picture, for your viewing pleasure! Of course, it was taken right before I got my sassy new haircut....it figures, doesn't it???
